we should do this more often, i tell HOM. live music has a specialness that youtube doesn't.
life together
come visit with me
Wednesday, September 23, 2026
ye olde jazz band
a misnomer if there was one. they play 70s oldies shanghai classics hokkien songs and when the saints come marching in. just not jazz. but i have a roaring good time nevertheless.
yummo
special lunch treat in that elevated restaurant* with friends celebrating their wedding anniversary so we get the love treatment and rose petals. the food is gorgeously umami and (plebe that i am) i enjoy it tremendously and forget to enjoy the view.
*at the top of the shanghai tower
duoyun
like a magical enclave in the sky. the book culture looks alive and well and it almost feels like a travesty to look at the non-book distractants. dad would have loved a visit here. i buy my first paper book in years, partly because it calls out to me (shanghai! women!) and partly because dad would have bought a book or two as well.
thoughts on travel-mates
very tiring types:
- the one who must cover every possible location and tick it off his list
- the one who must take twenty photos in various poses at every possible spot
- the one who needs the loo at every stop and in between too (me)
- the organized punctual ones with no actual agenda of their own (people i like)
- the optimizer who gets the best deals and gives the best suggestions (that's HOM)
the soul-suckers:
- the one who gripes at everything and trusts no one in a foreign land
- the sucker who buys every tale and the produce attached as well
- the one who talks non-stop (arghhhhh)
- the one who listens and hears nothing and then asks what? when? what?
as you can see, i am indulging in a bit of therapeutic ventilation.
Tuesday, September 22, 2026
fairmont peace hotel
there was the e&o, and there is the 和平饭店.
same modernized vintage esthetic superbly delivered. a tad less real estate than the e&o, possibly due to more exorbitant prices. but on the bund! at the cusp of walking street! with his-and-hers sinks! separate closet space! multiple charging points!
it wasn't on the bucket list before but it's there now.
full disclosure: there's no laundry room but there's a gym.
qipao tailor (again)
my dream is to have a qipao made in shanghai, my friend says. let me bring you to my tailor then, i tell her. always glad to have an excuse to visit!
give me a couple more years, i tell the tailor. i will be getting another one tailored. the maroon silk, i think. with three quarter sleeves. although to be honest there is one tonight in flowery cotton that whispers my name.
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